Why I blog
Blogging is a new experience for me and I am grateful for it. And no, I don’t blog because I am a failed writer, a lonely person, hate editors, need to get it all out or because I want to make money. So why do I blog?
Captive audience
I blog because I get satisfaction from knowing that a certain number of people read what I write each day. The individual post statistics help. Whether it’s through search engines, blog aggregators, or by clicking on ‘tags’ people who arrive come looking for something. On the other hand when I write an article for a newspaper, I am never sure of anything. Who reads and why.
Blogging is successful because it gives people the opportunity to read whenever they have the time. Why, you can read a post even a week later…archives are easy to access. No messy clippings required.
It gives me a high
I blog because I get a thrill from reading a meaningful comment. Quantity is not the thing here. Even if it is just one comment, if it adds to my article, makes me see things from a different perspective I feel I have grown as a person. This was one thing I never got on the job. This could be because people don’t immediately sign in to their email accounts after reading a newspaper article they feel something about.
Oh, to be free!
I also blog because there is freedom. No, not exactly freedom from editors. I understand that editors have other aspects to consider – like commercial success of a newspaper or magazine, the advertiser’s interest and in some cases the fear of the owner of the newspaper or some heavy weight politician. If I were an editor I might compromise…so no judgments here.
But at times an editor might truly have an opposite view from you. Ideas are subjective. I have often had to sell my ideas before selling my article. And I am proud of the fact that even when I had a regular job, the ideas have been mine 95 per cent of the time. With my blog I don’t have to sell my ideas to anyone. I write because I believe in it.
I want to make a difference
I have one clear objective. I want to make a difference in people’s lives and I feel that blogging could help me there. I know it seems too huge an ambition, and perhaps naive, but quantity is not everything. Even if an article of mine helps one individual in a small way I feel happy. And blogging gives me the ability to find out. ![]()
Lastly, I blog because I can write on a variety of subjects. I know there are blogging ‘rules’ which say one should not…but if I followed them, I would not be me. I have a wide variety of interests and yes, even several passions. Plus I feel very strongly about most things. If I force myself to write just about a few subjects I will not be being true to myself. And I don’t think I have the capability right now to work on five other blogs.
So readers, bear with me if a particular subject doesn’t interest you. I will try to make you feel with me. Either pro or against. At times you might shrug and go away…that’s fine too. There is always tomorrow.

























Hi Nita
YOu are really gifted with words to take reader into next level of thought process , surely gave me enough material for the food of my soul…to see things from deeper level.
hope to see more of your writing on the blog
from
paul
Hi Nita,
Seemed to remember someone with the same name (who happened to be family friends…
Nevertheless, would like to thank you for the blog. I was able to satiate that irritatingly persistent feeling of having heard Munnabhai’s “Pal Pal” song somewhere, before.
Got the source (Cliff Richard) from your blog.
Thanks once again.
Sanjay
Hi nita,
I like your blog, and therefore pressed it too…You are amazing in expressing your thoughts with awesome clarity…
you Rocks!!
thanks,
Anjul Sahu
Wanted to say how much I liked your “why I blog” entry. It summed up many of my own reasons. Thanks.
Hello Nita,
I have just started to browse your blog site, and see you have many topics you write about from the perspective of woman living in another country. Reading why you blog, expresses some very valuable reasons to do this activity, and I appreciate your candour. The potential for sharing ideas, musings, and information about what impacts on life are operating for someone else, elsewhere, enriches understanding of the self as just a speck living in a particular environment. I have added you to my friends list, so that I can read what you write regularly, amd will make the opportunity to read through your previous posts.
hi,
I have seen, what a gr88 passion u r having to write about anything in this today’s world.
It’s so nice to be a regular reader. so much gunine categarised content u have wrote.. very good.keep it up. i m impressed.
Narayan
hello nita,
ur snippets made interesting reading. would u be interested in writing a film script? let me know.
sam
You will have to give me more details. My email id is blog(dot)nita(at)gmail(dot)com.
Enjoyed your website. Do you have any script that I could play out in USA. I live in Houston, Texas and am fond of playing - creating a small thirty minutes drama with humor, style, emotionally sensitive, and yet educational and powerful. I have directed small plays already. “Silent Priviledge”. Recently saw Nagamandalam.
Nita and to the rest of the world — This is your cousin Ranjit Jatar writing. My compliments to you for starting this Blog which I saw today for the first time.
Friends, Nita is one of the most direct, honest and strongly opinionated persons I have known and she has been this way since childhood. Whats imporrtant however is that she is open to changing her views but only if alternative ones make sense.
Nita: I think we should start a campaign for changing our constitution with some systemic improvements. For eg there is absolutely no earthly reason why an illiterate person should be permitted to stand for elections. Our Election Commission is a strong and unbiased institution and can conduct objective type tests in all our national languages to assess competency before a potential candidate is allowed to stand for elections. I am sure if our MP s and MLA s were asked questions about the Indian Mutiny for eg, most would give the wrong answers as would most if asked when India became a republic.
What says?
Cheers
Thanks Ranjit. Maybe we could start an online petition for this. But more than anything, first criminals or anyone with a criminal case against him should be banned from standing for elections. In UP’s state elections, six criminals have been elected!
Nita,
Yes you are right. An online campaign is needed. But we need to think outside the box so that we can compel National parties to table such a resolution. Any thoughts anyone? Remember, our democracy is somewhat at the stage the USA was in perhaps in the mid 1800 s ( remember the wild west movies ??) when thugs were town sherrifs… However we now have media , the internet and a whole new different world. Lets put on our thinking caps. It needs to be a BIG idea.
Ummmmmmm I dont know why I blog. But I learnt blogging frm my brother and cousins.
I felt that I was reading blog of someone who thinks pretty much like i do…
Way to go girl
Hey Nita,
Your blog is rocking n very interesting.. I enjoy reading it.. I am a regular visitor here.. so keep posting.
Thanks
Bharath
Refreshing. I like your “whys”. Blogging is ‘cathartic’ for a family man without borders like me. I’ve learned something from you. “Why I Blog”. It is good to say so even though it appears through your postings . . . just quicker.
In 1990 visited Patna for 40 days after the monsoon season. That time was for no other purpose than to encounter the culture, history, people, and families as thery rose to meet me.
My favorite topic was, “What do you think of world peace and an international hiway coming though here?”.
While there I donated, World Spcriptures (A Compendium) , to the Patna Library, signing a guest book which Tagore Rabindrath signed which read something like . . . “I have seen the sun set in Patna, now I am ready to die”.
Some Muslims invited me into their home. They wanted to know why I stayed in Patna when I could go to Varanasi where Buddha taught. I remember their silence when I responded, “Of Buddha I prefer to see less in the statues and buildings more in the lives of the people here, now. We smiled silently.
You sound like an interesting person and hope to explore more of your love of things India.
Peace
Hi Family Man. You seem to be a very philosophical guy and a deep thinker.
I love India with a desperate passion (at times I think its because I am from a defence background), but I can be very scathing in my criticism as well. Basically I need to see the reaility, I love India but do not see her through rose coloured spectacles.
Hey Nita, its good to see that you have a lot of things to write about India, i’ve commented on atleast two of your articles. I’m from Darjeeling, and we relate more to the north east of India than to Indians in Bihar or UP or Delhi. It would be great if you could write something about the North East of India. I’ve encountered a lot of racism in Delhi and I would be grateful if you could enlighten my mainland Indian brothers and sisters that we from the north east are not just “Chinks” and “Kanchas” and “Bahadurs”. We’re Indians too !!
Hi Pradeep. Yes, I am aware of the racism that north-easterners face in delhi and in fact when I read about some hostel incident involving girls from the NE in Delhi I almost wrote about this…
Thank you for reminding me. You are a hundred percent right, the NE has not been sufficiently representated on my blog. The only thing I have written about the NE has been concerning China’s interest in Arunachal.
I have traveled in the NE a lot (my dad was in OIL India after he retired from the Army) and I have lived in Duliajan (assam) before marraige. I have been to Arunachal, Sikkim, Meghalaya. One of our very close family friends is Assamese (now settled in Bangalore). I have a lot of respect for the NE people and I confess that is partly because they respect their women….
And about racism let me assure you that there is a lot of racism in delhi, not just towards northeasterners but towards south indians as well.
Thanks again and in the coming months you will surely see more than one post on the NE here.
Thank you Nita, for planning to write about NE and also for your opinions. A lot of mainland Indians have a good things to say about the people from NE and i’m glad that you’re one of them. Thank you once and again and may your pen ..oops..may your keyboard always remain busy !! Heres to hoping !!
Kudos for running a great blog. I guess your ‘why blog’ comes out from your posts and analysis, and much before one arrives at this page. I think blogs have evolved at the perfect time, just when a really large number of Indians are beginning to work/ live in other parts of the world, and bringing back a ‘wide angle view’ of everything.
Thanks Shankar.
Hi nita, been here and there is so much to read. I hope to come by anytime when i can to read more. Keep writing as i can sense you inspire a lot of ppl here daily.
Thanks sunshine.
- Nita
Nita,
Your blog is very informative and is boosted by a direction and focus that is wonderful. I hope it is all right if i add it to my blog roll. It will be a pleasure for me to read it first thing every morning.
Thank you Madhuri. You are welcome to add me.
Hey Nita … rhymes with sweeter.
I love and admire your honesty, your curiousity and pride in your country.
I love and admire your unfailing ability to rejoice in your country’s strengths and your unfailing ability to recognise your country’s weakness.
I love and admire this, because I feel the same about my country.
I am not responsible for my country’s past.
I am responsible for my part, in my country’s future.
I wonder sometimes, if my love for India, is because of the colonial history that our countries share. I say share, with some trepidation … because the heritage for England wasn’t shared … it was taken … from India. But, for me, it is still shared … history. It has led us to, today.
I think my country is greater, better … because of India. And I don’t mean because of riches robbed, or people displaced, religions separated.
I think my country is better, because without colonisation … as an ignorant island nation … we wouldn’t have the wealth of culture that we have in my country, without India … without colonisation.
If the boot were on the other foot … the outcome would be the same.
I just think that Brits got colonisation first … because we were colonised from the word go. If the history of Britain were considered, then a person would know … every fucker invaded these shores … and, let me say this, without it … we would just be a numpty nation. It made us stronger.
That’s not an excuse. That’s a reason.
Neither excuse nor reason will ever be good enough for slaughter. History doesn’t judge, it records.
As I see it now. Britain has the opportunity to become a multi-cultural society - it has always been this, but because of our ‘island mentality’, we (I say we, don’t mean me) ‘we’ still find the ‘invasion’ idea … a threat … this fear is hereditory.
I hope, that ‘we’ will overcome this. Look at ‘our’ Royal Family … a bunch of ‘bastards’. There is no such thing as a ‘Brit’ … we are all ‘bastards’.
Because, of all the nations that have ‘invaded’ … ‘us’ … ‘they’ have only made us stronger.
That is what I believe lies in Britains strength.
How can such a small island be so rich?
I remember the tale of ‘Dick Whittington’ … the streets of London are paved with gold.
They are not.
Britain is not paved with gold.
But in Britain’s heart … I do believe … beats a heart of gold.
There is such poverty here … such debt … people living far beyond their earnings.
There is child abuse, homelessness, people who go uncared for and unrecognised … unwanted people - these people are British people.
But … what scares me is … the borders and the legislation that allow and accomodate … the uncared for, the unwanted, the abused … from ‘other’ countries … are closing.
I don’t know what to do about that.
I believe the world belongs to humanity.
And humanity should go wherever it wants in its world.
I am an idealist.
And … the world … apparently, doesn’t work that way.
Still … I believe, one day it will have to.
So … as a Brit … an English person … a human … I want a world withouth borders.
On a personal note … thank you Nita. You know why.
xx
qweenminx, I read this comment…and the emotion I felt was too much for me to express. I went to the gym. Now I am back and I want to say thank you. its wonderful knowing you. and i think those who know you in real are darned lucky.
Just came across your page. Wish I had seen it earlier. You express yourself very well. Keep up the good work. Look forward to dropping in more often.
You are welcome Prem. And thanks - Nita.
Really like your why’s. I wrote a few blogs on a different website and just moved to wordpress, and its so gratifying to read a sincere comment from a stranger.
All the best with your blogging!
Hi Niru. Welcome and thanks. You didn’t leave your wordpress url behind though so I can’t check out your blog. - Nita.
Nita
I enjoy your posts because you have political sensitivity and pragmatism. “Making a difference” is my mantra too. Check out my post on my blog. Have sent you a mail about the forest rights act.
Meenakshi thanks. Will certainly check out your blog. - Nita.
I forgot Nita! Apparently commenting while logged in doesnt redirect you to my blog.
humblereflections.wordpress.com
The reason I blog… I tire of misinformed and encoraged by the small voices that almost or start to get to the heart of the issue and settle it once and for all.
“wish you were here”
E
Being own editor is best… because… now a days I believe that every other news source is edited version… Blogs break the news… without any censorship…
It’s always better to write diff. topics under a single blog.. rather than blogging on different sites for different topics… so your’s a good decision…
If I have to answer this question,
I blog to b.l.o.g. (Better Listed On Google)… I write solutions…on how to do kind-off.. It really gives me satisfaction when a visitor searches for something and reaches my blog for solution.
About displaying ads… so there is no harm if it enables me to pay some bills… I do not ask money for solutions.
In short,
funduBytes = fundu+Bytes, fun + du (’from the’ in music dictionary) + Bytes and fund + u(’you’ in SMS language) + Bytes.
Thanks Rupesh.
Nita.
Hi Nita,
This is the first time I’m coming to your blog. I am a student and was doing some research, and when I came to ur blog, I just couldnt stop myself from reading some more of your articles. I think we need more opionionated women like you around & I wish you were a politician so I could vote for you or something. Keep writing! as a writer myself, I can understand how satisfying it is to see people like your work.
@S:
Thanks S. You are right it feels good to hear positive feedback like this because I don’t blog for money. Feedback like this makes me feel more motivated. Thanks for coming here and dropping in a line.
I just found your blog. Now, will keep visiting forever. Good work. Keep it up!
Thanks for your appreciation and do visit regularly!
- Nita.
Hi Nita
I’m really enjoying your blog. It really covers a lot of relevant issues facing India today and I would be looking forward to future posts..especially on new topics. One small temporary request though- you’ve put my comments through a moderation phase??? Yesterday they got published directly. Please take note I never resort to personal attacks or violate any other blogging policy. I’m an experienced blogger (though I participate in forums and Yahoo Answers more often). I have also carefully read your blogging policies -can you end the moderation phase for me, please? If you want more personal details from me, I’m willing to email you.
Regards
(I’m just looking for a blog which allows me more freedom and is also relevant to India’s current issues)
@ Sahil:
Thanks. It is good to have someone like you on my blog as well, someone who reads seriously and responds. You are welcome to email me but in any case I am taking you off the moderation list. But first let me explain something.
I put anyone who responds to a post on my north south india post on ‘moderation’ because I have found that the most gentlemanly people tend to get a bit het up out there. Unfortunately I do not have an option to put people on moderation on that post only. But as you say you are an experienced netizen and do not flame others (you would know this term flaming which is used commonly by bloggers) I shall remove you from the moderation list. I don’t like my blog to be used to vent people’s anger and frustration and nor do I like fights on my blog.
Let me reiteriate you that you have never given me any indication that you will do so, it’s just my fear because of my past experiences on the north south post.
Also you will notice that I have not changed a single comment of yours, nor have I ever removed/changed even a word and nor have I deleted a comment of yours.
You will always be welcome to my blog Sahil.
Thanks.
p.s. I must also add that I have put some general words on the moderation list and at times even those bloggers who are not on my moderation list at times go in there as even ‘inside’ words get taken into account. Also anything with a link goes into moderation. Also at times a comment just disappears, which means it has gone into spam. So if any of these happens, it’s not personal. But mainly, I have taken your IP address off my list.
Thanks for freeing me from the moderation phase (it’s a real pain)- and also for compliments (very sweet of you thanks).
@ Sahil:
I have sent you a mail. Thanks.
Nita, you used to have a widget of your recent posts (last 7 or 10?). I don’t see it anymore. Did I miss it? If not, then please consider adding it back - it’s useful to view the comments as the comments widget sometimes doesn’t go that far back re: posts and is limited by the number of comments. Thanks.
Amit, I have kept the recent post widget back on the left sidebar. I had removed it because I felt that it wasn’t useful. thanks for your feedback.
Thanks Nita.
Hi
I came to your wonderful blog while searching for Preeti Vyas Giannetti .
Am hooked, nice narrative , easy flow of words & the right mix of information .
Your work on NIE reminded me of my experience during my stint in the Circulation dept of The New Indian Express …its a great initiative strictly going by the objective
Keep up the great work
Best Wishes
jm
Thanks jm. hope to see you here again.
Nita.
Hi Nita,
Way to go!… You have got a very intersting site (blog?) up here… I loved it the moment I stepped in.
Thanks Wahi and welcome. - Nita.
Hi!
Nita,
I am glad I found your blog, accidently !!! - and do not want to loose it.
You said,
“I want to make a difference
I have one clear objective. I want to make a difference in people’s lives and I feel that blogging could help me there. I know it seems too huge an ambition, and perhaps naive, but quantity is not everything.
Even if an article of mine helps one individual in a small way I feel happy. And blogging gives me the ability to find out. “
My goal is the same like yours. And that is the only precious thing which we can offer to INDIA, which has given me a colorful life with full of flavors and deep understanding. But, I do not have the effective skills like yours.
Please keep up the noble work.
Direct or indirect way I will be always in touch with this exciting blog. For 20 years I was not becoming the U.S. citizen because I could not sacrifice my love to India. But because of certain unavoidable obligations, finally I got …..
Behind a great success in U.S. is a great nurturing in India.
I like your excellent way of “India – centric” blog with patriotic shield. Several times I thought of writing to TV channels, News papers or to the governmental departments but, my ideas were just like paper boat in the ocean. – So, I dropped the hopeless idea of wasting time and efforts.
How can we stop criminals becoming an electoral candidates , who misuse the power and still have immunity once they are elected?
When seeds are rotten, how we can expect a tree of honest governance?
In a nutshell, I can see the perfect reflections of my thoughts in your blog.
Thanks,
Pravin
Pravin, thanks for your comment. It is always wonderful when someone appreciates the purpose behind my blog. About your comment ‘when seeds are rotten…’ well, in a way I feel that’s not so. the seeds lie in the electorate who are poor and uneducated. I don’t blame a poor man who sells his vote and unless we educate our population, democracy will remain a farce in our country.
Wonderful….
Your reasons for blogging are so genuine and it feels that whatever you write, you write from the bottom of your heart.
Keep up the good work. Do stop by my blog and feel free to post your comments.
Cheers!
Thanks Sonu, but you forgot to leave your website. It needs to be typed in the box named URL. - Nita.
sonalismrules.wordpress.com
Nita,
I think you’re doing a wonderful job. You’re creating awareness and encouraging debates on issues that people thought were transparent and obvious. It really helps to get a minority say. I always look forward to your posts, and keep up the good work!
~Rani Baxter
Rani, I really need encouraging comments like yours! Thanks! - Nita.
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nrsl, thanks. sorry to reply so late but had missed this comment! - Nita
cool blog, will you mind, if i add it in my blogroll??
Now why should i mind that?
- Nita.
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